Think About It ... Have You Ever Wanted A Second Chance?

Second Chance Month may almost be over, but giving someone a second chance, especially for those who’ve been on the wrong side of the law, shouldn’t end when April does. Because we’ve all made mistakes, and a second chance is a gift that can make all the difference, as Red dramatically learned below



red headred headassets.rebelmouse.io

I had no idea that April was “Second Chance Month” until you sent me the official proclamation. I find it interesting that in the midst of juggling our usual million and one Red & Black things, your interest in criminal justice, which I know you consider a “passion project”, is as strong as ever, maybe even stronger.


Black's HeadBlackassets.rebelmouse.io

It is not intentional, sometimes “passion projects” find you. And, when you least expect it.


red headred headassets.rebelmouse.io

Or where you least expect it! Only you would take a “field trip” to a men’s prison.


Black's HeadBlackassets.rebelmouse.io

I will not get on my soapbox about how our education system contributes to the criminal justice problem. I will never forget a friend of mine who was formerly incarcerated telling me, “Rehabilitating people makes the assumption they were habilitated in the first place.”


red headred headassets.rebelmouse.io

When you stop and think about that statement, it’s pretty powerful! But I have to smile as once upon a time you, and I, used words like “offenders” and “prisoners” until we learned how our choice of words could be dehumanizing.


Blackassets.rebelmouse.io

Says the woman who once believed in the idea of “lock ’em up and throw away the key”.

red headred headassets.rebelmouse.io


That was before! I know you told me that just because someone made a bad decision, it didn’t make them a bad person, but it sounded like a cliche. Now, my opinion is based on our experience and the impact we’ve seen. The feedback has been eye-opening. Unfortunately, life doesn’t come with “do-overs.”

Black's HeadBlackassets.rebelmouse.io


Exactly. None of us are perfect. We have all made bad decisions. Second chances are about opportunities to show we have learned from our mistakes.

red headred headassets.rebelmouse.io


Well, I know I have. Obviously, not anything illegal. But it made me determined to teach my daughters what I had learned. Probably one of the most heartwarming parts of the feedback we’ve received is that so many people on the inside want better – not only for themselves, but for their children and grandchildren.

Black's HeadBlackassets.rebelmouse.io


Yes, which is why having a second chance is so critical. And, helping set people up for success, not failure, because it is about more than changing the lives of the formerly incarcerated -- it can change the lives of their families and, in turn, our communities and our country.

red headred headassets.rebelmouse.io


A ripple effect that could mean more people may get it right the first time and not need a second chance.

Black's HeadBlackassets.rebelmouse.io


True. Maybe we should look at it as giving society a second chance …
Sign-up

THANK YOU! BET YOU THOUGHT YOU'D JUST GET ONE...

Don’t tackle life alone. We’ve been there – done that –and want to share what we’ve learned to help you make better decisions and live a better life. When you sign up for the free sampler, we’ll welcome you into our community with our selection of the best fan-favorite tips and tools.

Your privacy will always be of upmost importance to us. We don’t spam or sell our mailing list. And never will. But our feelings won’t be hurt if you don’t want to share your name.


START TODAY! WANT A FREE SAMPLER OF TEST-DRIVEN TOOLS?